This week’s question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Lisa. You can find her on the web at www.yesicanwithaplan.com
I’m studying and applying the Laws of the Universe & Mind Science (it’s working!) As I get more clients, I feel a new set of fears come flooding in. I even wake up feeling depressed. I tell myself to breathe through it, let it go, it’s just the ego. But, I still feel its presence. It’s like watching a scary movie then feeling like someone/something is watching you. How do I QUICKLY rise above this?
Great question, Lisa, and congratulations on your growth and success!
What you’re experiencing is what I call “New level, new devil”.
Many people have a common misunderstanding that once they hit a certain point in their business; everything suddenly becomes a bed of roses.
The truth is that every time you change, adapt and grow, you experience fear. It’s a natural part of the process. As an entrepreneur, you MUST get comfortable being uncomfortable.
So the MOST important thing to remember as you’re going through the terror barrier each time, is that whatever you focus on will grow.
If you give energy to the fear by trying to fight it or figure it out, you will manifest reasons to feel fearful. If you focus on the success, you will manifest opportunities to be successful.
Here’s your cheat sheet on coping with the fear.
When you feel yourself going to that dark place, instead of fighting it, which only gives energy to it, greet it like an old friend, and say, “Thanks fear, it’s nice to know you’ll always be there for me, but today I’m going to focus on something else (love, my successes, what I’m grateful for, etc).”
Pretty soon, the fear will take a back seat, and you’ll get so good at redirecting your thoughts, that the next time you feel the fear bubbling, all you have to do is think, “NEXT!”, and quickly move to a thought steeped in love or gratitude.
The key is to keep going and get comfortable being uncomfortable.
Lisa, did you know I have an introductory mini Coaching Package called “Breaking Free”, which includes 3 one-on-one calls with me personally? My lead coach, Steph Tuss, could arrange with you to schedule these 3 calls with me on an “as needed” basis … and that way the next 3 times you’re meeting a new devil, you and I could jump on a call and I’ll personally mentor you to quickly rise above.
Reach out to Steph at 888-720-7117 ext. 7 and let her know that I sent you.
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