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Goal Shaming

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

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David,

I recently made the mistake of confiding in a good friend about a decision I’d made. I can clearly see how this decision will bring me closer to what I want in life, and I was excited about it. When I told my friend, she laughed at me. It made me feel small and when I left to go home, I felt myself literally shrinking. I’ve been struggling to regain my confidence ever since. I feel really stuck. Any words of advice?

Neagle Code Answer

First let me just say…I know how you feel. I remember confiding in a relative about my decision to go to one of my first seminars. I came back and the first thing he said to me was, “So, are you a millionaire yet?” And laughed. This was someone I looked up to!

Here is what you need to understand…every opportunity that comes into your life offers you a choice: to become more of yourself or to become less.

You either grow into the opportunity or you let it beat you down.

This is true of every opportunity, whether on its face it seems positive or negative.

If you let an opportunity beat you down, you likely fall into a victim mentality, a wounded mentality, and/or an entitled mentality. (Right now, you’re in wounded mentality)

And then the Law of Perpetual Transmutation and its subsidiary, the Reciprocating Law of Spirit, receive that message and send it back to you in kind, so you end up with problems in your life that you don’t want.

However, don’t despair, because you always have the opportunity, through the power of choice, to change your negative circumstances.

Think for a moment about choice.

You can choose to respond to your friend’s comments by second-guessing your decision and staying small or you can let her laughter propel you forward.

The key here is that
YOU have that CHOICE.

That’s because by changing how you’re responding to your circumstances, you are changing the message you are sending to Spirit, as well as changing the choices you’ll make in the future. Therefore, the opportunities that manifest in your life will change as well. It is Law.

I mean let’s be honest…if I had let my relative’s laughter stop me, you wouldn’t be reading this post right now.

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The Art of Success – Article #16 – What Are You Sacrificing?

What Are You Sacrificing?

One of the Laws of the Universe is the Law of Sacrifice.

It states: if you want something of a higher nature — i.e., something that will to take you further in life — then you have to give up something of a lower nature.

That’s the definition of sacrifice. Giving up something to gain something else.

The truth is, you’re always sacrificing SOMETHING.
So, what are you sacrificing?

Here are some examples of “lower nature” things:

• Settling for far less money than you’d like to make
• Tolerating a job you hate
• Allowing people to mistreat you
• Not asking for what you want
• A cluttered desk or home environment
• A broken lightbulb
• Anything that causes you to continually feel guilt, shame, or some other destructive emotion

By allowing these things to stay in your life, you are automatically sacrificing things of a higher nature, such as:

• The dream income you’d like to earn
• A job (or work or business) you love!
• Relationships where people treat you with respect
• Asking for what you want and receiving it
• A beautiful, clean, tidy desk or home environment that inspires you
• A light bulb that shines bright!
• Things and experiences that cause you to feel joy, satisfaction, and peace

The Law of Sacrifice
can work to your advantage,
if you use it the right way.

You can’t have something of a higher nature and lower nature at the same time. It’s one or the other.

If you give up something of a lower nature, then you make room for something better to show up.

The flip side is also true. If you give up something of a higher nature, then you make space to keep the “lower nature” things present in your life.

You can’t have both.

It’s your choice whether you want to fill your life with things of a lower nature, or things of a higher nature.

Make a conscious choice about what you’re going to sacrifice.

What are you willing to give up or change?

On the other side of this change lies something far greater than what you are experiencing right now.

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Why your mess is opportunity in disguise

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

David,

I’m a bit embarrassed to admit this, but I’ve made some bad decisions. Without going into too much detail, I’m now in a place where I can’t pay all my bills this month. I am doing everything I can to think differently about my situation, but I’m just not seeing how I can turn this around. Any idea how I can dig my way out of the mess I created?

Neagle Code Answer

First off, don’t be embarrassed…that shame just keeps you stuck in the patterns.

Second, realize the power of the Universal Law of Choice I mentioned in a previous blog post.

The amazing thing about choice is that it also gives you the chance to change the consequences of your past poor actions or decisions.

For instance, if you go broke and bill collectors are calling, you can’t change those facts in the moment.

But you can change how you respond to those circumstances and what you choose in the future. You can renegotiate your terms and learn from your mistakes for instance.

So while it’s true that, in response to your message, bags of money won’t suddenly fall in your lap, bags of opportunity will show up in your life.

In the long run, this is far better for you, your business, and your personal and spiritual development.

So the question is:

Will you accept
the opportunity?

Always remember the sly disguises of opportunity. They will sometimes show up as temporary misfortune or defeat.

Will you accept the manifestation of the message that you sent to Spirit?

Or will you say, no thanks; It’s too much trouble; I’m not good enough; then look around and wonder why things never work out for you?

Will you be a victim? Or will you be the hero of your own story?

As always, that is entirely your choice.

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Opportunity Answers Intention

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

David,

Admittedly I’m a little new to Universal law, but it seems a little simplistic to me that all I have to do to get what I want is to align my head, heart and actions, as if bags of money will fall in my lap if only I can be in alignment. Is that what you are suggesting in the answer to your one of your previous blog posts?

Thanks David!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks for the question!

As I said in my previous answer, when you send a signal, whether clear or not, Spirit reciprocates that message back into your life exactly as it receives it. Clear messages manifest according to what you want; confused or mixed messages not so much.

Now, you have to understand how that message is manifested in your life. This is an area where people get really confused, and I think it answers the main question you’re asking.

Spirit can only reciprocate your message in the form of opportunity.

Why is that? Why can’t bags of money just fall into your lap?

The great gift of the Law of Choice is that we choose everything that comes into our life. This means that no one can put anything into your life. You choose it all.

The flip side is that we are required to choose everything that comes into our life.

And opportunity gives you the imperative to do just that.

For example, if you’ve sent a clear request to Spirit for more money, and that money fell in your lap, there’s not much choice involved in gathering it up. You don’t grow as a human being or serve a broader purpose.

But if you get to talking to the person next to you in line and find out that she needs exactly what you do, your clear wish for more money has reciprocated in the form of an opportunity, in this case, a hot prospect.

You then exercise your choice by either following up and getting a new client, which improves both of your lives, or you squander the opportunity.

Make sense?

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Clear mind, healthy intentions

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

David,

I seriously feel like you were speaking to me directly when you answered someone’s question about “intentions”. I set intentions ALL THE TIME, and I’m constantly let down. So now I know I must have two intentions being sent out into the universe… one that’s wounded and one that’s an actual desire.

My question is: How the heck do I change this, so that I actually can set an intention and receive what I’m intending?

Thanks a bunch!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi! I can tell this is a frustration for you for sure! Let me see if I can help.

Part of the problem is that when you continuously experience the disappointing results, you then compound the problem by making these results your truth or reality.

You most likely say, “Things never work out for me.” “I don’t even know why I try.” “The deck is stacked against people like me.”

If someone tries to help you, you may even fight to the death proclaiming, “But these are my results.” “This is my truth.” “This is my reality.”

By doing so, you reinforce the confusion within yourself and re-communicate the same message to Spirit.

Thus, your so-called reality becomes a vicious, perpetuating cycle.

What’s the answer?

In order to have the Law of Perpetual Transmutation work in your favor you must align your head, heart and action (including your language) so that you’re sending a clear signal to Spirit.

I know this is easier said than done, but still it must be done.

Confront your habits of thought and correct your thinking.

Understand your emotions and heal your wounds.

Speak ONLY what you desire, and take actions that are in harmony with your clear mind and healthy emotions.

When you send Spirit a clear message, Spirit reciprocates that message back into your life with a matching result.

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The Art of Success – Article #15 – 3 Keys to Building Confidence

3 Keys to Building Confidence

Here’s the truth…

A lack of self-confidence keeps a person from expressing their heart’s desire.

To experience success, you must be confident in yourself.

How do you
build confidence?

Key #1: Know your supply. We have to know our true supply (i.e., our source). This requires deep understanding.

Everything comes from ONE source. You could call it God, Spirit, the Universe, or whatever name you prefer. Everything comes from one source, and it comes through people. Nothing is left out. That includes money.

Most people believe their supply is other people. They then lack lack confidence, because they think people can shut them off from what they desire.

They’ll tip-toe through life, afraid of someone telling them “no,” making fun of them, rejecting them, etc. This fear stops most people in their tracks.

Key #2: Think, speak, and act only wonderfully about yourself. Never refer to yourself in any derogatory way. Never see yourself, what you do, how you feel, or what you think as “bad” or negative. Don’t even view your circumstances as negative.

Your words have power. Speak and act wonderfully about yourself all the time. Don’t abuse yourself. Only describe yourself in ways that reflect what you WANT rather than what you don’t want.

Key #3: Surround yourself with people and influences that support your purpose and dreams, and respect how special you are.

Don’t hang out with people who don’t believe there’s something wonderful about themselves. Why is that?

Because if they don’t see greatness in themselves,
they can’t see greatness in you.

They can’t give something they don’t have. All they can do is manipulate you. Why? They are trying to get something from you.

Think deeply about this, and you’ll find that it’s very accurate.

Start making confidence your highest priority in your life. Treat it as something you value. This will help you build extraordinary confidence.

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Unhealthy Intentions

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

Can you explain what intention means? I’ve heard a lot of coaches talk about intention, decision and commitment, and it seems it’s used interchangeably all the time. What’s the truth behind intention, so I can be sure and use it correctly with my own clients?

Thanks a bunch!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi! Great question!

The Laws make no exceptions for intentions like most people believe.

Now, you’re correct, intention is a big word that’s being used all over the place—largely incorrectly.

A person will say, “I did the wrong thing,” “I made a mistake,” or “I didn’t get it right, but my intention was good.”

What they’re really saying is,

“My want or desire was
different than what I received.”

Or someone will focus hard on a particular result, calling it their “intention,” and then are baffled when they don’t get what they want.

Here’s the bottom line: If your intention is correct or healthy, you will fall correctly within the Law of Perpetual Transmutation and get the thing that you want.

Every time.

If your intention is incorrect or unhealthy, you will get a result, but it won’t be what you thought you were asking for.

This is because

Intention comes
from the heart.

If you have a wounded heart, psychologically or emotionally, you are communicating two polar opposite so-called “intentions” at the same time.

Let me explain…

One intention is coming from the wound that has not been healed, and the other is coming from your genuine desire.

That’s a very confused message you’re sending to Spirit.

Through the Reciprocating Law of Spirit the result will match the message.

It will be confusion, chaos, playing small, a failing or disappointing business, debt, lack, and so on.

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The Art of Success – Article #14 – The Law of Giving and Receiving

The Law of
Giving and Receiving

Last week I wrote about the difference between thrivers and survivors.

Thrivers are always GIVING their best to the Universe; while survivors are trying to GET from the Universe.

Let’s look closer at these two mindsets, and how they relate to the Law of Giving.

By Law, the Universe must reward you with whatever you impress upon it. In other words, whatever you give, you will get back.

Always remember…

THOUGHTS
ARE
THINGS.

Where are you in terms of this Law?

Thrivers are filled with purpose that springs forth from the true desire in their heart. Therefore, they give the very best of themselves in useful service each day. It’s always a pleasure to be around these people, because they give their best to everyone.

Thrivers see life as one endless stream of opportunities to give their best.

By Law, the Universe must return to them the energy they put out. If the thriver is a business owner, then the universe rewards them with plenty of opportunities to be successful and give their best.

By contrast, the survivor believes in lack and scarcity, and sees it everywhere. So this is exactly what the Universe returns to them — lack. The survivor collects evidence of lack in their life, which further validates their belief in it. “See? There’s not enough,” they say.

The Universe mirrors them and responds by giving them “not enough.”

That’s the Law of Giving.

The Universe doesn’t care if what you’re giving is good or bad, it will always return it back to you.

Make a conscious decision to give your very best in everything you do, and the Universe will respond by giving it’s best right back to you!

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Giving, Taking, and The Law of More Life

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Mariya V.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

In a previous blog I saw you mention The Law of More Life and how it pertains to struggle in our life. Can you explain this a little more in-depth. I think I’m finally beginning to understand, and I’d love a little more info on this Law.

Neagle Code Answer

I’d be happy to Mariya!

The Law of More Life states that any being or anything that does not add to another’s life or to life as a whole is reduced to its basic form.

We see this in nature when the seasons change. During the summertime leaves are providing a vital resource to our planet by turning carbon dioxide into oxygen on a continuous basis.

When the weather starts to cool and the days shorten, the trees begin to go dormant, and that leaf can no longer perform that function, so it crumbles, dies and falls to the ground, where its decomposition becomes part of the process all over again by revitalizing the soil.

Human beings
do not escape this law.

If we don’t add to the life of others, and to life itself, we’re actually taking from life, and we will be broken down as well.

This can be as natural as when an elderly person at the end of a good life dies in her sleep.

Well-meaning people can fall into disharmony with this law as well.

They have confusion in their life. They may have lack, debt, broken relationships.

Tenuous situations like those strike at a person’s inner core of safety and security, and without meaning harm to anyone, they can start to come from a “getting” or “taking” place.

So, rather than adding to the lives of the people around them, they start taking from those lives, and they become subject to The Law of More Life.

Hope that helps!!

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The Art of Success – Article #13 – Survivors Vs. Thrivers

Survivors Vs. Thrivers

Most people want to succeed in life (i.e., thrive), yet they’re programmed merely to survive.

These two conditions — surviving and thriving — come from two entirely different mindsets.

The survivor believes there’s never enough of anything. Survivors never succeed, because they spend all of their life trying to “get” what they think they need to survive…usually love, security, or self-esteem.

Subconsciously, they’ve been programmed to believe in ideas of lack and limitation. You’re not enough, I’m not enough, there’s not enough…

Everything in the survivor’s world confirms this idea of “not enough.” It forms their reality. The survivor’s life is like living hell, and they are barely getting by.

They’re constantly thinking thoughts of lack or limitation everywhere they go. “This is too expensive. I can’t afford that. If only I had enough money to do this…”

The survivor even seeks out and harmonizes with other people who have similar problems.

They’re always looking for opportunities to get, get, get. I want to get the deal, get the bargain, get the money.

They’re programmed to think they have to get, because all they see is lack.

But this is an incorrect way of living.

The law says,

“Give and you’ll receive.”

Thrivers are successful, because they GIVE to their world and the Universe responds in kind. Thrivers already feel loved, secure, and have a healthy self-esteem on the inside.

They’re solid, so they don’t need to go out and “get” things. Instead, they GIVE through everything they do.

To “thrive” means to flourish. The thriver creates a life full of love, joy, peace, prosperity, and giving. That’s success. THAT is real living!

A thriver’s thoughts are in harmony with ideas of abundance and plenty.
They:

Once you’ve formed a clear picture of your desired destination, get emotionally involved with it.

• love giving to other people;

• provide recognition to others;

• freely express themselves;

• know what they want, and where they’re going.

Thrivers attract
opportunities to give

— to provide valuable products and services to other individuals.

Which one are you — a survivor or a thriver?

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