I Literally Shrink

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Calle.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

Last weekend I attended a 4th of July party, and while I was there, several prominent business owners (who I look up to) arrived.

I immediately shut down and avoided any and all eye contact and conversation with these people.

It was CRAZY.

I literally saw myself get smaller, quieter and more invisible the longer I was there. Eventually I left without saying anything to anyone.

Do you have any suggestions that might help me from repeating this the next time this happens?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi Calle,

The key to recognize that your thoughts and actions are coming from a place of your core wound…

You “disappeared” because of a core wound that says you’re not good enough.

And that is a lie.

So, the next time you’re in a similar situation, I want you to pay VERY close attention to the voices in your head.

As soon as they start to tell you you’re not good enough, smart enough, successful enough, confident enough, etc… I want you to say “NEXT”, and immediately start thinking of all the things you LOVE about yourself.

And then walk right up to the person, extend your hand with a smile and introduce yourself.

Here’s the kicker… it’s not going to feel comfortable. It might even feel like the scariest thing you’ve ever done.

DO IT ANYWAY.

You need to be disciplined with this…do NOT let your emotions take control of your actions.

The more you step through this fear, the more confidence you’ll gain.

And on Tuesday, I’m hosting a fantastic free training on how to SILENCE the mental chatter going on in your mind…you might want to think about joining me.  CLICK HERE for the details.

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Can you catch 3 bunnies?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Matt Brainern.

Question:

I have a full-time job, have a desire to grow my home-based internet marketing business and even work a part time job teaching guitar lessons. Do you feel it is possible to desire multiple things at once or do we only have so much energy to give and should we focus it to maximize desired results?

Answer:

Hi Matt and thanks for your question.

I think it's first important to get an understanding of WHY you want to be doing all of these things.

What's your motivation behind working full-time job, growing your home-based marketing business and teaching guitar lessons?

Are you doing all of these things because you truly love them all?

Or are your motivations due to something else?

I have a hard time believing that you're equally passionate about all three. So get really clear and honest about why you're doing what you're doing.

Ask yourself if you're taking part in these businesses because you really love them or because you feel you SHOULD, you need the money, or you hope others appreciate you for your HARD WORK.

Do you have a belief that you can't do what you love AND make money?

Are you creating distraction and chaos to keep yourself small?

You see, what you're doing right now is chasing multiple bunnies.

You will get your best results when you can focus on ONE business and give all your energy to it.

Once you get clear on that, choose the one business you're most passionate and inspired about and then give it your ALL. Burn the ships and don't let anything stop you or stand in your way of achieving your goals.

The truth is that once you have a deep emotional desire for something and then EXPECT that desire to manifest, the Universe will respond.

Emotion puts everything in motion, and if you're not passionate about your business, you most likely won't get the results you're hoping for.

My assignment to you is to really get clear on WHY you're splitting your energy between 3 unrelated businesses. This will allow you to see what needs to change more clearly.

“Just Believe”,®

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Does fear steal your joy?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Jenny Shain. You can learn more on the web at http://redeemingyourdreams.com/

Question:

Is it possible to live without fear or reduce it drastically so that you face challenges with happiness & without anxiety?

Answer:

Hi and thanks for the question.

The definition of fear is: a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid.

Fear is an emotion, just like happiness, sadness, joy, or anger. Because fear is an emotion, you can choose whether or not you're going to allow yourself to be overcome by it.

Let me explain…

Typically entrepreneurs feel fear when they are faced with their own growth or when they know they must change. They feel this fear because their ego is programmed to view these opportunities for growth or change as a threat, and therefore you feel fear to keep you from growing and being “at risk”.

The important thing to note in the definition is that it says the emotion is triggered whether the threat is real or IMAGINED.

Most of the time the fear that we feel is not real.

Now don't get me wrong, if someone is dangling you off of the Empire State Building by your ankles, the fear that you're feeling is VERY real. But the fear you're referring to in your question above is the fear of making a mistake, the fear of what others will think, the fear of not being able to pay your bills, or the fear of failing.

This is the kind of fear that is a LIE.

Here are a few truths that will help you put fear in its place so that you're not controlled by it.

1) Spirit will never speak to you through fear.

2) When you begin to feel fear, CHOOSE to focus only on the solution or the positive in the situation, and the fear will subside.

3) Always remember that fear is a lie, so if you see yourself getting sucked into that dark place, remind yourself that it's not real and ask yourself why you're allowing it to control you. How is it serving you to be paralyzed by fear? You are the creator of your reality, thus the fear is created between your own ears.

4) The only way to neutralize the fear is to step through it. Fighting it or resisting it only gives it energy. For example: If you're feeling fear about making a sales call, MAKE THE CALL and the fear will disappear.

As you continue to change, adapt and grow, you'll become more skilled at recognizing fear for what it really is, and this will allow you to get more comfortable being uncomfortable.

“Just Believe”,®

P.S: The Neagle Code: DIRECTIONS for LIFE is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.TheNeagleCode.com to participate.

P.P.S.: May I ask you to help me spread the word about this program? Is there someone you care for who is stuck, or struggling, or lost, or unhappy? Because if so, I would very much like to help. No matter their question, no matter their predicament, no matter if they've never heard of me before … if they would like to ask for help via www.TheNeagleCode.com, my Team and I will do our very best to provide that help.