The Power of the Dark Side

The Power of the Dark Side

No matter what you believe… the truth is that how you show up in the world today is based on what your experience of life was between the ages of 0-7.

Let me explain…

Most parents do the absolute best job they can raising their children. I think we can all agree on that. But I think we can also all agree that as children there were things that we did or said that our parents reacted strongly to. If we did something to embarrass them, if we were disrespectful, if we showed anger, our parents would react in a way that caused us to stop that natural expression of who we were.

And if you shut down your ability to express yourself to your parents, because you were only allowed to express yourself in ways that they deemed fit, you never got to know who you really are.


Because you shut off your inner voice.

That inner voice is there for every person.

It is the same as instinct is for the bird, or the squirrel, or the moose, or a tree. It tells you what to do, who to be, where to go, how to show up… but you have to learn to listen to it. And unfortunately, most of us were NEVER taught how to listen to that voice.

Instead we were taught to get our guidance from outside our selves. We were taught to look to our parents, teachers, relatives or others with “authority” over us, and thus began the slow process of losing ourselves.

Look, every one of us has a purpose, but because of the way we were raised, we can’t hear our own inner desires… and even if we DO hear that inner voice, we have excuse after excuse as to why we can’t have that, do that or be that.

It's there for all of us… that purpose, that desire.

We have to start to be aware of is how much information that we've been given that leads us in the opposite direction of that. Because when you're living a life and you're not happy, when you're not making the money that you want, when you're not expressing yourself the way that you want, when you're in a relationships that sucks, what you're really doing is you're listening to somebody else's voice in your head.

You're not listening to yourself.

And you've got so many insecurities, you don't know even how to make a decision to move yourself out of that place and into the place where you want to be.

I’d like to help you with that. I’d like to help you turn this cycle around and tap into your greatest power… the power of being who you REALLY are. I’ve created a quick FREE lesson that you can access by audio or video that explains this process… and gives you steps to finally start to see who you were meant to be rather than the person everyone told you that you had to be. ENJOY!

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[5 Simple Steps to Unshakeable Self-Confidence Series] Article #4 ~ You Have to be in Control of You

Too often, our beliefs, values, and the amount of our self-confidence are determined and controlled by people who were of great importance in our past.

That could be our mom, dad, clergy, teacher, aunt, uncle, grandparent; the list goes on and on.

In fact, most of us are trained from the time we’re very young to listen to and obey our elders, the people, who, supposedly, know best.

Very few of us are taught to listen to our own voice, especially when it conflicts with someone who assumes to be in charge of our well-being.

As a result, most people never step into their own authority.

They never test their mettle. They never see the amazing things they’re actually capable of doing.

Father Doesn’t Know Best
Well, the truth is, despite that 50’s sitcom title, father doesn’t know best.

YOU know best.

And you have the ability to do virtually anything that you can wrap your mind around.

However, in order to do so, you have to be in control of you, and not allow the ancient voices of your past—or those of your present—to control you.

What Does It Mean to Be in Control of Me?
It’s so rare for people be in control of their own lives that sometimes they don’t know what that even means.

Being in control of you means being your own authority.

It means that you’re not going to do something because somebody else likes it or doesn’t like it.

It means that the opportunities you accept, the choices you make, are based on what you want for your life. Period.

How Do You Know When Something Is Right for You or Not?
If you want to know if an opportunity would be good for you, just listen to what your internal voice has to say about it.

It will tell you who you are, what you should be doing, where you should be going, and how you should be doing it.

Now, your inner voice may not express itself as the classic, still, small voice that you can hear. It might be a sensation like chills or a knowing or something else.

If you’re not in the habit of listening to yourself, you might find it a challenge in the beginning to recognize your internal voice.

One thing’s for sure, it is not the nattering or hectoring voice in your head. It speaks simply, often in a short sentence or phrase, and usually arises from the gut.

Fortunately, the more you try to listen to your inner voice, the more you will hear it, and the easier it will be to hear.

Likewise, the more you trust its counsel and heed it, the less time you’ll spend making decisions. Because you’ll quickly check in with yourself and you’ll know.

You’ll know, right away, when something is advantageous for you or not.

And the positive impact of that on your business, life, and self-confidence will be phenomenal!

David Neagle, The Million Dollar Income Acceleration Mentor and author of The Millions Within, teaches entrepreneurs and commission-based sales professionals how to quantum leap their current incomes past the 7-figure income level, often in less than 12 months. As a world-class speaker, sales trainer, and success-mindset mentor to some of the globe’s top CEOs, David also privately mentors big decision-makers in their pursuit of quantum success and peace of mind.