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Survivors Vs. Thrivers

Most people want to succeed in life (i.e., thrive), yet they’re programmed merely to survive.

These two conditions — surviving and thriving — come from two entirely different mindsets.

The survivor believes there’s never enough of anything. Survivors never succeed, because they spend all of their life trying to “get” what they think they need to survive…usually love, security, or self-esteem.

Subconsciously, they’ve been programmed to believe in ideas of lack and limitation. You’re not enough, I’m not enough, there’s not enough…

Everything in the survivor’s world confirms this idea of “not enough.” It forms their reality. The survivor’s life is like living hell, and they are barely getting by.

They’re constantly thinking thoughts of lack or limitation everywhere they go. “This is too expensive. I can’t afford that. If only I had enough money to do this…”

The survivor even seeks out and harmonizes with other people who have similar problems.

They’re always looking for opportunities to get, get, get. I want to get the deal, get the bargain, get the money.

They’re programmed to think they have to get, because all they see is lack.

But this is an incorrect way of living.

The law says,

“Give and you’ll receive.”

Thrivers are successful, because they GIVE to their world and the Universe responds in kind. Thrivers already feel loved, secure, and have a healthy self-esteem on the inside.

They’re solid, so they don’t need to go out and “get” things. Instead, they GIVE through everything they do.

To “thrive” means to flourish. The thriver creates a life full of love, joy, peace, prosperity, and giving. That’s success. THAT is real living!

A thriver’s thoughts are in harmony with ideas of abundance and plenty.
They:

Once you’ve formed a clear picture of your desired destination, get emotionally involved with it.

• love giving to other people;

• provide recognition to others;

• freely express themselves;

• know what they want, and where they’re going.

Thrivers attract
opportunities to give

— to provide valuable products and services to other individuals.

Which one are you — a survivor or a thriver?

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2 Things That Prevent Continued Success

Do you know the two things preventing you from experiencing continued success in your life?

#1 – Not knowing where you are.

#2 – Not knowing where you’re going.

You may think to yourself, “Come on, Neagle. You’ve got to be kidding me. I know exactly where I am, and where I’m going.”

Do you?

Many people don’t have the slightest idea where they are.

For example, let’s say your goal is to build a successful business. But you have an underlying need for love, security, or self-esteem from other people.

Instead of understanding the TRUTH (which is that you already have these three things inside of you), you’ll be out there trying to GET those things from other people.

Every decision you make, whether it’s to go some place or do something, will be based on the goal of “getting” one of those three things in various different forms of manifestation.

If you have a need for security, then you’ve probably built your entire life around “feeling” secure.

Since everything you do is secretly laced with the underlying need for security, you’ll resist doing the things required to grow your business.

You MUST know where you’re starting from (know yourself and your beliefs). come to you.

Once you begin to understand where you are, you can make shifts inside of yourself, and everything you need will come to you.

(It’s like the old saying, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” That’s absolutely true.)

The second piece critical to your success is to know where you’re going. You can’t get somewhere without first knowing where you’re going. Otherwise, you’re just wandering aimlessly.

I mean knowing at a deep level where you want to go.

This requires paying close attention to your desires and acting on them.

Desire is the guide that shows you where to go. It offers hints and leave clues.

Once you’ve formed a clear picture of your desired destination, get emotionally involved with it.

Make it real in your mind.

Then take action on it.

Everything you need for the fulfillment of that desire will show itself.

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This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions
for Life” comes from Marna.

Thank you for asking this important question. Finding balance can often feel like a high-wire act! Personal relationships can impact your business and vice versa, especially if a relationship is not founded on complimentary or mutually shared values.

It sounds like you and your boyfriend don’t value the same things. This in turn can create a conflict rather than a balance issue.

When someone is asking you to deny your desire to grow (so they can be happy) and to choose between them or your business, ask yourself the following questions:

Why have I attracted this?

What is this here to teach me?

What are the emotions and thoughts that are coming up around this for me?

The truth is, love means total acceptance, and if your boyfriend is not totally accepting of your desires, it may be toxic.

You’re feeling out-of-balance because you are feeling torn to choose and you shouldn’t have to choose.

When you align yourself with values that show you how you can, instead of the all reasons for why you can’t, you will continue on your fast track to growth, and nothing will stop you.

Just Believe,^®

 

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This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from an individual who wishes to remain anonymous.

Question:

I have incredible fear surrounding saying no to my clients, disappointing my clients and possibly having my clients be angry with me. This fear exists all the time, even if nothing is going wrong in my business. It is affecting my physical health to the point that I've consulted multiple doctors and am now on medication. I also considered giving up my business on a regular basis. How can I get past this?

Answer:

Thanks so much for your question…

The answer is both simple and a journey in itself.

You must learn to love yourself.

The reason you're afraid of disappointing someone is because you are relying on them to make you feel ok or worthy or good enough or loved (you pick).

At some point in your life you picked up the belief that you had to be something, do something or act a certain way to be loved. If you disappointed someone, either there were consequences, or they withheld love.

Here's an example to help you see what I mean:

A child struggles in school. Even though they are giving it their best, they bring home an F on their report card. The child's parents are disappointed, and instead of helping the child work to figure out why they are struggling, they get upset, angry or even punish the child.

The message is clear to the child that they are not good enough. So they work harder at doing whatever they can to gain the acceptance of their parents, because to them acceptance now equals love.

Fast forward to your situation.

You don't want to do anything to upset your client because it will cause you to feel that same pain you felt as a child, and so you're willing to put up with anything or do anything to avoid feeling that way again.

The only way to stop feeling this way is to love yourself the same way God loves you.

Unconditionally.

“Just Believe”,^®

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