Family resents my success

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I am the daughter of a family who was raised VERY poor, and their expectations have always been to make something of myself and to be successful, but I’m now at the top of the income level of anyone in my family and I’m finding myself in a uncomfortable place. I’ve hit a ceiling and I think it’s because I’m worried I won’t fit in with my family anymore or I won’t “be like them” anymore.

How should I think about this so I can break through this income barrier?

Thanks!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks for your question!

The first thing you need to understand is that when you exceed the income level of anyone in your family, you may not fit in anymore.

You may not relate on the same level anymore either.

Things that are important to you may not be important to them and vice versa.

And sometimes they will judge you for your success.

But if you don’t move forward, you’re living a life so they won’t feel uncomfortable.

Recognize that at some level your parents gave you a double binding message.

One was to be successful.

The other was don’t stray too far.

The fastest way to move through this financial set point is to realize that your relationships may change.

This doesn’t mean that you love them any less…
it just means that it’s time to change.

Accept that change, and begin surrounding yourself with other people who WILL support you and who are also several steps ahead of you as you strive to hit your goals.

After all, you get ONE life…
who are you going
to live it for?

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Do we have a spiritual crisis, manifested in our economy? Part Two continued …

Part Two of Two, now continued …

… Most people think wealth and poverty are entirely separate, and this misconception is part of the reason we are experiencing an economic crisis. But the truth is that, wealth and poverty are merely the physical evidence of one singular Universal Law being rightly or wrongly used.

So many people inaccurately believe that our source of money and “things” is other people, when actually other people are nothing more than the effect. Our Source is the Universe, and when we abide by the Laws of the Universe to add to life, we experience “more life” (read: abundance) ourselves.

Conversely, when we disregard these great Laws, or attempt to manipulate them, we experience a very different outcome … we drive down a very different road. That road is filled with lack and limitation. And we perpetuate the negative experience because we believe it's the only reality there is.

We then succumb to living a life of “needing” to “get”, and all our “getting” becomes difficult, because we have disconnected from our true Source, which is the Universe.

What does that leave us to do?

It leaves us to: struggle, push, manipulate, fail.

Because whatever we create that does not add to life will eventually come down.

Our economic model did not add to “more life” according to the Laws of the Universe, and now we're seeing it come down.

So, what you can do right now, given these effects?

This is the perfect time for you to evaluate how you are running your life. What do you believe is your Source? Have you been practicing communicating with Spirit … turning over your desires and intentions to the Universe … and giving acknowledgement and gratitude when it arrives?

If you’re not sure where to begin, I would like to provide you with another complimentary resource. My downloadable “Art of Success” 4-part audio program is the perfect starting point for seekers wanting to learn more about Universal Law.

May it be a turning point for you, as this teaching was for me.

Do we have a spiritual crisis, manifested in our economy?

What I’m about to write may be very difficult for you to accept and embrace.

For my part, I want you to know, that’s okay.

All I ask is that you sit with it.

If you disagree, that is your right to do so. I will not be offended, and I will continue to respect you and your opinions. It is my hope that we will continue to exchange ideas (and differences in opinions) for many years to come.

That being said, I believe this information is in large part what initially caused me to begin to grow, and to transform my life into the abundance and freedom that I enjoy today.

And if this information can help you to do the same, then my risk today of sharing this with you, will have been worth it!

So, with all the love in my heart, I ask you to consider this:

* * * * *

Truth: Everything we experience in our physical world is first created in our spiritual world.

Spirit is the unseen power that manifests in the physical realm of life as “reality”.

This is important because whatever we are experiencing on the physical plane of life is an “effect” and NOT a “cause”. The causes of all that we experience are all beyond our physical senses.

“Wealth” and “poverty” are “effects” experienced by individuals as a result of how they use their minds, and how they operate within the Universal Laws that govern all.

So it's not that we're the victims of widespread economic crisis … it's that we, as a people, are experiencing the effects of a widespread spiritual crisis. And, until we understand that we cannot manipulate Universal Laws to suit our individual purposes … we will continue to experience effects that we dislike.

Most people think wealth and poverty are entirely separate, and this misconception is part of the reason we are experiencing an economic crisis. But the truth is that wealth and poverty are merely the physical evidence of one singular Universal Law being rightly or wrongly used.

To be continued …