Answer The Door

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Amanda B.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

I want to know what you mean by “the Universe wants more for you than you want for yourself”. This confuses me. If it’s true, why have I not been able to create a business that grows year over year? I TRULY desire it!

Thank you!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi Amanda and thanks for this GREAT question!

Here’s the truth:

The Universe can bring something to your front door, but you have to open the door.

If you’re not opening the door, you are in resistance to something.

Think of resistance as keeping the door closed to the good that you desire.

Here’s the really cool thing… the door represents our ability to choose.

We could choose to keep the door closed, or we could choose to open the door.

But if we keep that door closed, it doesn't matter what's on the other side of it.

It can't get to us.

The Universe itself
doesn't hold anything back.

It will bring you what you tell it to bring you…
but you must open the door.

So ask yourself the following questions:

What am I resisting being, doing or having?

Is there a hard conversation I’m avoiding?

Is there an opportunity I’ve been putting off because it’s uncomfortable?

Is there something I know I should be doing, but I’ve been procrastinating rather than getting it done?

Is there something I have been holding on to that I know I need to let go of?

Stepping out of resistance will allow you to open the door to your desires…Every. Single. Time.

I’m hosting a free training this Tuesday (3/19) called The Universal Law of Non-Resistance. In that training I’ll help you identify what you’re resisting so you can open that door! CLICK here to register and join me.

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Is the Universe to Blame?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Dear David,

I’ve heard you say that The Universe provides money based on what you need.

Well, I have a credit card balance of $7,500. Each month I intend to bring in the money to pay this off in full, but all The Universe brings me is the minimum payment!

How do I work the Laws of the Universe to be able to pay the full amount? I really want to pay it off because it’s costing me interest fees each month. I would love your guidance. Thanks!

Neagle Code Answer

Thanks for your question!

First I think it’s important to explain how the Universe provides.

You see the Universe is completely deductive in nature. This means that it cannot provide to you anything that is not impressed upon it by you.

If month after month you’re not able to pay off that credit card debt, we need to look at the Law of Cause and Effect.

This Law states that for every cause there is an effect. In simple terms this means that there is something that you’re not doing that is causing you to only be able to create the minimum due.

Really examine
your actions.

Are you doing EVERYTHING you can to bring in the money you need even if it means working late, making extra sales calls, and sacrificing time with your friends or family?

Look at where you stop.

Be honest with yourself and ask to be shown what you are resisting doing or being in order to be able to bring in the full $7500.00.

Once you see the resistance, take action immediately.

It is through accurate action that you impress your desire on The Universe so that it can provide what you desire.

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Feeling ripped off?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Rebecca B.

Neagle Code Question

Up until about a couple of weeks ago, I was working with a coach. The reason I stopped working with her is that I wasn't bringing in enough from my business to make my monthly payments. So after becoming 30 days past due, we terminated the contract.

Neagle Code Answer

Hi Rebecca,

As long as you stay in anger and blame, you will continue to repeat this pattern…and it will continue to be repeated until you learn the lesson it has to teach you.

Let me explain.

You are the creator of everything you experience in life.

All the good AND
all the bad.

It's easy to see all the gifts and lessons in the good things…and not quite as easy to see the gifts and lessons in all the “not so good” things.

If you can move through the anger and blame, and take responsibility for this, you'll begin to start seeing the lesson.

And the lesson in your situation is simple, as the Laws always are.

Whenever money stops flowing into your life, it's because you are in resistance.

Remember the Universe is completely deductive in nature. This means that if you are in resistance, the Universe can't bring you what you desire…it will reflect that resistance to you.

When you are in surrender and flow, the Universe will in turn respond and what you desire will flow easily to you.

So ask yourself this: During my coaching, what was I resisting?

Were you resisting:

  • being seen?
  • raising your prices?
  • making sales calls?
  • asking for a sale?
  • spending money on marketing?
  • going to places where your clients could be found?

I assure you, if you get really honest with yourself you'll see how you caused the results you experienced.

And the gift in that is that you can now CONSCIOUSLY create a new
(and better) experience.

Resistance is a HUGE barrier…actually one of THE barriers…to success. And it's why I'm going to be teaching a FREE class on this exact topic on February 20th. I'll be going into great detail to help everyone on the call see how they can flip from resistance and struggle to ease and grace.

If you'd like to join me, simply CLICK HERE for all the details.

PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. See the sidebar to ask your question today!

 

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Help! I’ve been plagued by low sales for months

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I have been plagued by the same challenge for several months now…low sales. It’s to the point where I need to start cutting back on my spending, which feels constricting and based in lack.

The biggest problem: I can’t figure out how to overcome this challenge, and it is SO frustrating…what is going on?

Thanks so much!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi, and thanks for your question.

First let’s look at what challenges in our lives and businesses REALLY are…

1) They are necessary for growth.
2) They hold hidden lessons that we need to learn about ourselves.
3) They are neither good or bad…they just “are”.

Webster’s Dictionary defines a challenge as: a stimulating task or problem.

But here’s what I want you to see:

You are experiencing this challenge because there is something that you need to learn about yourself, and the challenge keeps recurring because you are resisting learning what the challenge itself is trying to get you to see.

Each challenge we are faced with has a hidden message…

a hidden lesson that we need to learn
in order to become the person we
need to become to fulfill our purpose.

If you find yourself with the same challenge over and over, you need to take a deep look into what you may be resisting hearing, seeing, doing or being, that is keeping that challenge in your life.

In this instance, you may be resisting:

• the sales conversation
• reaching out to prospects
• being seen
• rejection

The list could go on.

Look deep into your challenge to identify what you may be resisting and reach out for help if you still can’t identify the resistance.

PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. See the sidebar to ask your question today!

 

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How to defeat distraction

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

I think I suffer from Shiny Object Syndrome…meaning I can easily be distracted by a new “opportunity”. This can show up as a training, class, new direction, you name it. I’m constantly faced with trying to decide if I should or shouldn’t do something, and it keeps me from focusing. How do I know what I should be saying yes to?

Neagle Code Answer

Thanks for the question! I know many entrepreneurs struggle with this.

First… do you have a clear-cut goal? You can’t decide what the next step is if you don’t know where you’re going.

If you don’t have a goal, set some time aside and get very clear about what you’d like the end result to be.

If you already have a clear goal, ask yourself if there is something that you’re resisting doing that’s keeping you from that goal.

Often times, if you’re in resistance, something shiny
will pop up to distract you.

You’ll need to be very honest with yourself about this, as your mind will create stories around why you’re resisting something.

Let me give you an example:

If your goal is to enroll more clients, and you KNOW your next step is to make sales calls, but instead you sign up for a class to learn how to build a website, you’re using the website class as a distraction.

And the insidious thing is that you will have yourself convinced that when you finish the class, you’ll magically have those new clients enrolled.

When you really want a clear gauge to help you make a decision, I always recommend that you turn to the FOUR QUESTIONS…you may have even heard me teach this before.

So let’s use the example above and run it through using the FOUR QUESTIONS.

1) Is this something I want to be, do or have? In the instance of the web class, yes.

2) Is being, doing or having this taking me closer to my goal? In this instance the answer would be no because it would be taking the person farther from it. They already know that the most direct way to enroll clients is to make sales calls.

3) Is being, doing or having this in alignment with Universal Law (more life to all)? Yes

4) Does being, doing or having this violate the rights of others (does it take away someone else’s right to choose)? No

The determining factor in using these questions is that you must answer yes to the first three questions, and no to the fourth.

Since the answer to the 2nd question was a no, this person would not choose to take the web class. Instead they would focus on working through their resistance to sales calls.

When experiencing bright shiny object syndrome, using the four questions above will help you see clearly which direction to take.

PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. See the sidebar to ask your question today!

 

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Understanding resistance: how to tell if something is not right for you

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Amanda E.

Neagle Code Question

How do you know the difference between when resistance is because something isn't right for you vs. resistance because you REALLY need to do it to take yourself to the next level? Thanks so much, David!

Neagle Code Answer

What a fantastic question!

I think it would help if we used a specific example here, and because so many entrepreneurs resist sales, let’s use that as the example.

First things first. When you decide to do anything in your business it is important to ask the question,

“Is this taking me closer to my goal, or further away?”

We know that the lifeblood of any business is really sales. If you don’t have sales you don’t have a business.

Making sales calls WILL bring you closer to your goal, if your goal is to build your business.

Yet many people will tell me that they are not sales people; that it’s just not in their personality.

And it’s a big lie. They are resisting doing the thing that will grow their business because of fear.

The crazy thing is that many people won’t even try. To really understand if something is not for you, you have to do it long enough to determine if it’s not for you.

Herein lies the difference between knowing if something is not right for you or if you’re resisting something.

I’m sure you’ve all heard the phrase, “You won’t know if you like it until you try it.” There’s a lot of truth to that statement.

If you’re wondering if you’re resisting something, get very honest with yourself. Determine if doing it will bring you closer to your goal, and if it will, DO IT!

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PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.DavidNeagle.com/ask-david to participate.

My self esteem is shot. How do I move through this difficult time?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

My self-esteem is in the toilet, and I'm terrified of other people and their judgments. My car is a complete wreck, and I'm really struggling financially. For this reason I isolate myself. I avoid networking events because I'm ashamed someone will see my car. I avoid promoting myself online because I feel that I have nothing of value to say. I avoid dating because I'm embarrassed by my poverty. How can I move through this? Who could possibly help me?

Neagle Code Answer

Right now, the only person who can help you is YOU.

You have to make a decision. And until you make that decision, NOTHING will change no matter who tries to help you.

Right now your programming, your fear and your ego are controlling your life.

All of the self-doubt, fear of judgment, shame and embarrassment were given to you by other people.

They were not given to you by Spirit.

You need to make a decision as to whether you are going to live your own life, or if you are going to be a puppet for someone else.

If you choose to live your own life, you need to immediately begin to do EVERYTHING you are resisting:

  • You must go to networking events to learn that people don’t care what car you drive.
  • You must promote yourself on-line to learn that you DO have something valuable to say.
  • You must begin dating to learn that how much money you make does not determine your worth.
  • You must stop hiding.

So to answer your question, no one can do this for you; you must begin to help yourself by first deciding you want a different life and then beginning to IMMEDIATELY take action to create that different life. In order to support you, STUDY the truth.

I would also recommend you consider joining me in my new low-cost program titled “Subconscious Success.” It will begin to give you the awareness you are looking for as to WHY you are experiencing what you are experiencing, and HOW to begin to think differently so you can act differently. Click here for more information: www.ThinkLikeSuccess.com

 

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PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.DavidNeagle.com/ask-david to participate.

Got a challenge? Email me for help!

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Nicole.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I have been plagued by the same challenge for several months now…not enough clients. It’s to the point where I need to start cutting back on my spending which feels constricting and based in lack. The biggest problem: I can’t figure out how to overcome this challenge and it is SO frustrating…what is going on?

Thanks so much!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi Nicole and thanks for your question.

First let’s look at what challenges in our life and business REALLY are…

1) They are necessary for growth.
2) They hold hidden lessons that you need to learn about yourself.
3) They are neither good or bad…they just “are”.

Webster’s Dictionary defines a challenge as: a stimulating task or problem.

But here’s what I want you to see:

You are experiencing this challenge because there is something that you need to learn about yourself, and the challenge keeps recurring because you are resisting learning what the challenge itself is trying to get you to see.

Each challenge we are faced with has a hidden message…a hidden lesson that we need to learn in order to become the person we need to become to fulfill our dreams.

If you find yourself with the same challenge over and over, you need to take a deep look into what you may be resisting hearing, seeing, doing or being, that’s keeping that challenge in your life.

In this instance, you may be resisting something within your sales conversation.

You may be resisting reaching out to prospects.

You may be resisting being seen..

The list could go on.

Look deep into your challenge to identify what you may be resisting and reach out for help if you still can’t identify the resistance from someone who is a qualified coach.

If you are reading this, chances are you are faced with a challenge that you are seeking to solve. Post your challenge below and I’ll do my best to explain what that challenge may be trying to tell you.

Or if you prefer to remain anonymous, simply send an email containing your challenge to [email protected] and I’ll respond.

Let’s overcome these challenges together and make miracles happen!

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PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.DavidNeagle.com/ask-david to participate.

4 truths to help you overcome fear

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Mike K.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

Thanks so much for the opportunity to ask you this question. My question is around fear. I would LOVE to control the fear that I feel. I believe it keeps me from my success. Do you have any suggestions pertaining to HOW I can control the fear I feel?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks for the question.

First let’s all get on the same page.

The definition of fear is: a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid.

Fear is an emotion, just like happiness, sadness, joy, or anger. Because fear is an emotion, you can choose whether or not you’re going to allow yourself to be overcome by it.

Let me explain…

Typically entrepreneurs feel fear when they are faced with their own growth or when they know they must change. They feel this fear because their ego is programmed to view these opportunities for growth or change as a threat, and therefore they feel fear to keep from growing and being “at risk”.

The important thing to note in the definition is that it says the emotion is triggered whether the threat is real or IMAGINED.

Most of the time, unless your life is endangered, the fear that we feel is not real.

Here are a few truths that will help you put fear in its place so that you’re not controlled by it:

1) Spirit will never speak to you through fear.

2) When you begin to feel fear, CHOOSE to focus only on the solution or the positive in the situation, and the fear will subside.

3) Always remember that fear is a lie, so if you see yourself getting sucked into that dark place, remind yourself that it’s not real and ask yourself why you’re allowing it to control you. How is it serving you to be paralyzed by fear? You are the creator of your reality, thus the fear is created between your own ears.

4) The only way to neutralize the fear is to step through it. Fighting it or resisting it only gives it energy. For example: If you’re feeling fear about making a sales call, MAKE THE CALL and the fear will disappear.

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PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.DavidNeagle.com/ask-david to participate.

Can you tell the difference: resistance vs persistence…

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions
for Life”
comes from Chris.

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How do I know if I am resisting or persisting? I am not a quitter, but I have pretty much failed on everything I started after two or three years into the business or whatever project. So now I'm feeling that all the times I persisted on being, doing or having whatever it was I thought was worth persisting, I was actually resisting the change that needed to take place. Thank you! Much love! More life!

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Chris, this is a great question.


Resistance occurs when there is something that you don’t understand about yourself or the situation you are experiencing.


In order to identify when you are in resistance, you have to ask yourself, “What am I avoiding being, doing, or having?” If you are persisting in an area of your life as a way of avoiding another, you are in resistance.

If you created a solid business that provided a solution to a problem that people truly needed and wanted, then the only reason it would fail was if you were in resistance to doing whatever it took to make sales.

If you enter into every conversation with the intention to help someone else, you will no longer see yourself as a disruption or selfish but as someone being of service.


The subconscious mind often tries to be sneaky and make it look like you are not in resistance with the illusion of being “busy.” The problem is that as long as you are busy persisting in anything other than sales, you are in resistance.

Creating a business out of resistance is like building a house on the sand. It will always fail until you build a solid foundation inside yourself.

In order to stop resisting, you have to be willing to face whatever it is you are running from.

This is very important. You must be willing to look at the very thing that you are avoiding. It will more than likely show up as a fear.

Once you are willing to look at it and bring it into your awareness, then you can understand what’s really going on and change it.

The next step is to actually DO the thing that you have been resisting and to persist in facing your fear of it by continuously and consistently showing up!

This will give you the experience of being, doing and eventually having what you desire in your life.

Just Believe,®
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PS: The Neagle Code: Directions for Life is a weekly no-cost
program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.DavidNeagle.com/ask-david to participate.