If youโve been following this series, you now know how to close 80-100% of your ideal prospects in 15 minutes.
Knowledge is vital, but to actually start closing those sales, you have to apply what youโve learned.
To inspire you to do that, here are all five of the pillars again:
Pillar 1: Become Your Own Pillar of Influence
In the context of sales, influence is the art of equating in the mind of your ideal clients the fact that you have the solution they need.
Influence, not pressure, is your best sales tool, because your ideal prospects already want or need your product or service. They may not realize that yet, however, because theyโre in a prison of their own situation.
Your job is to bridge the gap between that prison and their solution. But in order to coax someone out of his or her prison, you first have to coax yourself out of yours.
In other words, in order to harness the power of influence, you must first influence yourself. Here are three ways to do that:
1. Get real.
Be honest about any ideological prisons that youโre in. For instance, are you telling yourself what you canโt afford? Or why your clients wonโt pay high fees?
Negative beliefs directly impact your bottom line, repel those high-paying clients, and blind you to opportunities.
2. Talk to yourself.
Every sales conversation needs to begin with a conversation with yourself to be sure that you are coming from a place of โinfluence energy.โ
Before every sales call, spend 10 minutes, asking yourself questions like these:
โWhat is the desired outcome of this call?โ
โWhat energy state do I need to be in, in order to be influential?โ
โHow will I help this person get out of his/her prison?โ
โHow am I going to influence him/her?โ
3. Gain knowledge at the level that you want to be, not where you are.
Be willing to stretch your mind, invest in trainings, and travel to events. If you wonโt invest in trainings for yourself, how can you expect your clients to invest in yours?
Pillar 2: Put Yourself in the Position to Influence
If you want to be able to turn your prospectsโ objections into commitments, you have to put yourself into the correct position to influence them. Here are four ways to do that:
It will keep them going when they falter, and sustain them during those dark moments when they confront what they need to confront in order to change.
1. Make it inbound.
Create situations where your prospects come to you. This positions you as an expert who is in demand.
For instance, have your prospects call you for strategy sessions versus you calling them. Speak at conferences, where a host will introduce you as an expert who has helped hundreds of people in the past. After your talk, your ideal prospects should flock to you.
2. Dress the part.
To be seen as a person of influence, dress to impress at business or networking events. Wear clothing that is appropriate to your niche or style, but that makes you stand out and brings out your best.
3. Polarize the conversation.
Rather than responding to introductory questions, ask your own questions to quickly determine if the person youโre talking to is your ideal client or not.
For instance, when someone asks me what I do, instead of answering, I say, โLet me ask you a question. If your annual income suddenly became your monthly income, what in your life would change?โ
For more details about how to polarize conversations, or to read any of the other articles in this series, please see my blog.
4. Bring an assistant with you.
Having an assistant with you at networking events positions you as a high-level expert, while also freeing you to move on to the next person, as your assistant puts the prospect into your calendar and builds excitement about your work.
Pillar 3: Attract Your Ideal Client
Your ideal client is someone who already wants or needs your product or service, and is demonstrating an urgency to change by actively seeking a solution.
Theyโre buying books and going to conferences, seminars, and workshops. Even better is if theyโre willing to travel. When people are willing to deal with the inconvenience and expense of traveling to events, they are serious about change.
The key to attracting your ideal clients is to determine exactly where they are demonstrating the want and need for what you do, both online and offline, and go there.
For instance, what online groups do they belong to? Who do they follow? What seminars do they attend? Where do they gather?
Pillar 4: Ask Questions During a Discovery Conversation
You canโt tell your prospects that youโre the right mentor for them. Theyโll just get defensive and resist. You have to influence them so that they have that thought themselves.
As you ask your prospects the four questions of the discovery conversation, and lead them to connect powerfully with their own truth, this should happen automatically.
Those four questions are:
Question 1: โWhat are you looking to accomplish?โ
Tailor that question to your specific business, product or service, and then listen to their response. They will tell you what you need to know.
Question 2: โWhat is the biggest problem in your business (or life) right now?โ
With this question, youโre finding out what they want and need, but, more important, theyโre beginning to get clear about their problem. Theyโre also bringing it from some nebulous future into the present, where they can finally face it and see their solution.
Question 3: โWhy do you think you have that problem?โ
If their answer to this or any of these questions is incorrect, donโt tell them that or argue with them. Youโre not going to draw clarity out of them if they feel defensive.
You want to listen, but more than that, you want to really hear them.
If you can hear what theyโre saying with your own feelings, and then express that empathy while asking the fourth question, you will influence them every time.
Question 4: โHow badly do you want this to change?โ
If youโve asked this question with empathy, while also conveying a tone of authority, your prospects should feel permission to be authentic and tell you the truth.
This will likely elicit emotion, which means that theyโre committing to you emotionally.
With their laughter or tears, theyโre asking you for a directive as to what to do.
Secure the Sale and Create Momentum.
What you do then is solidify the commitment. While staying emotionally connected to them, say, โLetโs get this going,โ and ask for their credit card number, or tell them youโll be turning them over to your assistant, who will get the number and get them started.
In either case, before you get off the phone, create momentum by giving your new clients an immediate taste of the transformation thatโs to come, such as by assigning them an exercise to complete.
And then, apply the last pillar.
Pillar 5: Transference of Belief
The sale is your new clientsโ first step toward finally having the life of their dreams.
Believe in their greatness and be excited for them, so that they will be excited as well.
Your belief in their greatness will help keep their own doubt at bay and will sustain them during dark moments.
And while you hold the vision of whatโs possible for them, you begin to see that much more is possible for you too.
As you apply these 5 Pillars, and work with your new clients, you step beyond prison bars you didnโt even know were there, and begin to walk your own path of greatness as well.