This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Randt.
How do you “be” the person you desire to be when your whole life has been filled with judgment, fear and pain? Where do you get the fortitude to step out of your paradigm and re-create yourself?
Thanks for the question!
The first thing to realize is that everything comes from within you. As children, we are taught to look outward for validation of what the world is like. But the truth is that all experiences come from inside of you.
You get to decide who you want to be and what you want your reality to be. It is not determined by anyone else but you.
But, your reality won’t change until you start making new decisions.
See your current situation as a place to work from. Even if you aren’t currently the person that you need to be to go where you want to go, you can choose to be that person now.
What kind of person has what you want?
What are their characteristics?
Once you have that list, make a decision to start adopting those qualities as your own and be that person all the time.
Your desire to change has to be stronger than the fear you are feeling.
Fear is an illusion; a result of false programming that formed your current reality.
Once you believe more in the Truth than you do your own story, change will be automatic.
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