This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Joanie Dhillon. You can find her on the web at http://www.joaniedhillon.com.
I own an online retail clothing company, have a desire to grow my home-based internet marketing business and even work a part time job in timeshare sales (I know I’m exhausted just writing it). I am in a relationship as well that has taken its beating due to all my career aspirations. I am feeling so limited on the energy I can direct to all areas simultaneously and therefore, one or more areas ends up suffering depending on where I am directing my focus and energy at that period of time. Do you feel it is possible to give so much desire and positive energy to several different things that I really want to manifest in my life or do we only have so much energy to give and should we focus it to maximize desired results?
Hi Joanie and thanks for your question.
I think it’s first important to get an understanding of WHY you want to be doing all of these things.
What’s your motivation behind growing your retail clothing company, your home-based marketing business and selling timeshares?
Are you doing all of these things because you truly love them all?
Or are your motivations due to something else?
I have a hard time believing that you’re equally passionate about all three. So get really clear and honest about why you’re doing what you’re doing.
Ask yourself if you’re taking part in these businesses because you really love them or because you feel you SHOULD, you need the money, or you hope others appreciate you for your HARD WORK.
Do you have a belief that you can’t do what you love AND make money?
Are you creating distraction and chaos to keep yourself small?
You see, what you’re doing right now is chasing bunnies. You will get your best results when you can focus on ONE business and give all your energy to it.
Once you get clear on that, choose the one business you’re most passionate and inspired about and then give it your ALL. Burn the ships and don’t let anything stop you or stand in your way of achieving your goals.
The truth is that once you have a deep emotional desire for something and then EXPECT that desire to manifest, the Universe will respond. Emotion puts everything in motion, and if you’re not passionate about your business, you most likely won’t get the results you’re hoping for.
My assignment to you is to really get clear on WHY you’re splitting your energy between 3 unrelated businesses. This will allow you to see what needs to change more clearly.
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