Help! My GROWN children are crazy-making!
This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions
for Life” comes from Meena.
David, here is my question…
How I improve my relationship with my grown rebellious children who I love so much?
This is one of those questions for which there is no magic fix for the people you love.
There are a couple of things here that you need to really think about.
1. You are 100% responsible for everything in your own life.
2. Your children are grown so you are no longer responsible FOR them.
3. It is not your job to fix them. They are the only ones who can change themselves.
That means that you have to decide that you are no longer going to tolerate toxic relationships in your life.
That doesn't mean that you no longer love them.
In fact, the solution to your problem is to love them for who they are without judgment and limit the time you spend with them.
We all need to learn about cause and effect, and we are all responsible for our own choices and lives.
One of the best gifts we can give our children is to allow them to have their own experiences and carve their own way, even if we may not agree with them.
I wish you all the best!
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