This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from an individual who wishes to remain anonymous.
I am absolutely overwhelmed with obstacles to my own growth and success. I have absolutely no idea how to build a business model around what I do. My self-esteem is in the toilet, and I'm terrified of other people and their judgments. My car is a complete wreck and I'm so poor. For this reason I isolate myself. I avoid networking events because I'm ashamed someone will see my car. I avoid promoting myself online because I feel that I have nothing of value to say. I avoid dating because I'm embarrassed by my poverty. How can I start with nothing? Who could possibly help me? I mean really me with all of this?
Right now, the only person who can help you is YOU.
You have to make a decision. And until you make that decision, NOTHING will change no matter who tries to help you.
Right now your programming, your fear and your ego are controlling your life.
All of the self-doubt, fear of judgment, shame and embarrassment was given to you by other people.
It was not given to you by Spirit.
You need to make a decision as to whether you are going to live your own life or if you are going to be a puppet for someone else.
If you choose to live your own life, you need to immediately begin to do EVERYTHING you are resisting.
You must go to networking events to learn that people don't care what car you drive.
You must promote yourself on-line to learn that you DO have something valuable to say.
You must begin dating to learn that how much money you make does not determine your worth.
You must stop hiding.
So to answer your question, no one can help you with this; you must begin to help yourself by first deciding you want a different life and then beginning to IMMEDIATELY take action to create that different life.
And a word from the wise…the longer you wait to take action, the more the fear will try to control you.
P.S: The Neagle Code: DIRECTIONS for LIFE is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, I'll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.TheNeagleCode.com to participate.
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