Should I fire her?

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Neagle Code Question

David,

I have an employee who has been working with me for a long time. We are friends, and she works for me. The problem is: Iโ€™ve grown and she has not. I find myself NOT asking her to do things because I know sheโ€™s not at the level to do the task, so I do it myself. More and more I find myself imagining hiring someone else who can meet me on my level and keep up, but I care about her and donโ€™t want to make a mistake by letting her go. Iโ€™m concerned I wonโ€™t actually find the right person to fill the role or that my expectations are too high. How do I know whatโ€™s the โ€œrightโ€ decision to make?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi, and thanks for the GREAT question! I know many people struggle with this.

One very important TRUTH to understand is that everything in the Universe is seeking you. Health, wealth, relationships โ€“ they are all seeking you.

Itโ€™s like that famous, finger-pointing Uncle Sam poster:

Prosperity wants YOU!

So, when you have a desire for something, itโ€™s because that thing is seeking you and itโ€™s resonating with something thatโ€™s inside of you.

The Law of Polarity states that a desire canโ€™t be felt until the supply is ready to appear.

So what does this mean?

It means that the desire you feel means the right person to fill that role is already looking for your position.

It also means that the more qualified person is also, based on the Law of Vibration, in harmony with your desire.

AND

It also means that you are tolerating your current employee, which is not only negatively affecting your business, it is also keeping this new person from appearing.

The REAL problem here isnโ€™t about making the right decision, is it? What youโ€™re actually struggling with is either:

a) you feel responsible for this current employee
b) you are afraid of what sheโ€™ll think about you if you let her go, or
c) you are purposely sabotaging your business.

And it could be a combination of all three.

There is one more thing you need to understandโ€ฆand you may want to write this down and re-read it.

If itโ€™s not working for you, itโ€™s not working for her.

If you look to the truth you will see what is the โ€œrightโ€ decision.

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My employee/friend canโ€™t keep up. Should I let her go?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

David,

I have an employee who has been working with me for a long time. Weโ€™re friends, and she works for me. The problem is: Iโ€™ve grown and she has not. I find myself NOT asking her to do things because I know sheโ€™s not at the level to do the task, so I do it myself. More and more I find myself imagining hiring someone else who can meet me on my level and keep up, but I care about her and donโ€™t want to make a mistake by letting her go. Iโ€™m concerned I wonโ€™t actually find the right person to fill the role or that my expectations are too high. How do I know whatโ€™s the โ€œrightโ€ decision to make?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi, and thanks for the GREAT question! I know many people struggle with this.

One very important TRUTH to understand is that everything in the Universe is seeking you. Health, wealth, relationships, itโ€™s all seeking you.

Itโ€™s like that famous, finger-pointing Uncle Sam poster: Prosperity wants YOU.

So when you have a desire for something, itโ€™s because that thing is seeking you and itโ€™s resonating with something thatโ€™s inside of you.

The Law of Polarity states that a desire canโ€™t be felt until the supply is ready to appear.

So what does this mean?

It means that the desire you feel means the right person to fill that role is already looking for your position.

It also means that the more qualified person is also, based on the Law of Vibration, in harmony with your desire.

AND

It also means that youโ€™re tolerating your current employee, which is not only negatively affecting your business, itโ€™s also keeping this new person from appearing.

The REAL problem here isnโ€™t about making the right decision is it? What youโ€™re actually struggling with is either a) you feel responsible for this current employee b) you are afraid of what sheโ€™ll think about you if you let her go or c) you are purposely sabotaging your business.

And it could be a combination of all 3.

Thereโ€™s one more thing you need to understandโ€ฆand you may want to write this down and re-read it.

If itโ€™s not working for you, itโ€™s not working for her.

If you look to the truth you will see what is the โ€œrightโ€ decision.

 

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Employee issues are ruining my businessโ€ฆhelp!

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hello David!

Iโ€™ve been in business for myself a couple of years, and Iโ€™m to the point where Iโ€™m ready to walk away because Iโ€™m having a hell of a time dealing with my employees. I tend to be kind and put their priorities and needs first. I feel like the conductor of a runaway train and I am afraid I will ruin my business success if something doesnโ€™t change. What's your opinion?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi, and thanks for the question!

โ€œDealingโ€ with employees and โ€œconsidering their needsโ€ are two totally different things.

Because Iโ€™m not sure of the exact scenarios you are referencing, Iโ€™m going to make some assumptions in order to help you get some clarity about whatโ€™s going on in your business.

My guess is that you would rather be liked than prosperous.

Let me explain.

If you put your employees needs over the needs of your business because you are afraid that they wonโ€™t like you if you tell them no, you would rather be liked than prosperous.

If you avoid having the โ€œdifficultโ€ conversations with your employees regarding expectations and responsibilities because youโ€™re worried they wonโ€™t like you, you would rather be liked than prosperous.

You see, it is one thing to consider the needs to your employees; itโ€™s an entirely different thing if your employeesโ€™ needs negatively affect your business.

Communication is key in any business setting, and if youโ€™re having difficulty communicating for fear of what others will think, youโ€™re putting your business in a very perilous position.

The key is to really become aware of whatโ€™s happening.

Most people experience this in their business because they fear the judgment of others.

Judgment is painful and therefore, they are willing to do anything to avoid it.

Freedom is in realizing that the judgment of others has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the person who is judging.

Employees respect a leader who communicates expectations and is confident and clear.

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