This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life“ comes from Kristiani, Life Purpose Coach …
How do I overcome my tendency to play small and fear success? I know that I have a huge life purpose and could be of service to many if I could only get out of my own way!
Great question, Kristiani, and one that I know many of my students can relate to.
Let’s start with truth.
We know that we create our own reality, and we can’t have a desire without the way to fulfill that desire already present. So, my question to you is…how is it serving you to stay small? Now, before you react, take a moment and really think about it.
What would happen if you really stepped into your purpose and became the huge success you know you would be?
Would it mean that your relationship with your friends or family would change?
Would it mean that you’d need to let go of something that you weren’t so sure you could let go of?
Would it mean that others may judge you?
You’re staying small for a reason, and it’s been a choice of yours to do so. The key to getting out of your own way is to become aware of what you are resisting. What are you not willing to do what’s keeping you stuck?
Once you become aware of your fears, you must reframe it.
You also have to understand that if you continue to stay small, you are doing a disservice to those people who are looking for your help. Remember, if you have the desire, the way to fulfill it is waiting for you.
It just starts with a decision to get very honest with yourself about why you are choosing to play small.
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