How Can I Get My Spouse on Board?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

My wife is a working professional and is paid very well. Sheโ€™s fulfilled with her work, and her income is high, but sheโ€™s not an entrepreneur. Sheโ€™s not tuned into the hustles and struggles of owning your own business.

Many of the things I need to work onโ€”like mindset issuesโ€”come more naturally to her. Sometimes Iโ€™ll say, โ€œHey, letโ€™s go to a David Neagle live event,โ€ and she wonโ€™t be as into it as I am. But sometimes sheโ€™s curious about what Iโ€™m learning.

Sometimes she sees me doing this mindset work and sheโ€™s like, โ€œWhy do you need to do that?โ€ How can I get her and I on the same wavelength, so that we can pursue some non-economic, non-financial ways to grow?

Neagle Code Answer

The first thing Iโ€™d ask her is, โ€œWhy are you asking me this question? What are you actually looking for?โ€

Because it sounds like sheโ€™s looking for something, and youโ€™re answering her question in a way where sheโ€™s not satisfied.

So I would find out what sheโ€™s looking for, and what the reason is behind her question.

Iโ€™d say, โ€œThatโ€™s a great question. And I honor and respect your question. But why are you asking me this? What information are you looking for?โ€

Letโ€™s find out what she wants to know.

Because if you answer the wrong question, she wonโ€™t be satisfied.

Obviously, thereโ€™s a disconnect somewhere. And we need to figure what it is first.

Iโ€™d also say to her:

โ€œI know you donโ€™t have as much interest in this area as I do. But it would really mean a lot to me if youโ€™d come to this event with me, because itโ€™s something Iโ€™m interested in. And Iโ€™d love for us to work together on our relationship.โ€

โ€œโ€ฆAND Iโ€™ll totally respect you if we get there and you decide itโ€™s not for you. But it would really mean a lot to me if youโ€™d come see whatโ€™s really interesting me, so that we can create dialogue between the two of us.โ€

I would approach it from that angle.

Sometimes the spouse just isnโ€™t into it.
And thatโ€™s totally fine, as long as both people are working to grow their relationship together.

The worst thing you can do is to make her wrong for her lack of interest.

Hereโ€™s another thingโ€ฆA person has to fully embrace the teacher.

She might be curious about the material Iโ€™m teaching, but I might not be the right teacher for her.

She might be interested in the content, but maybe she needs to find somebody she vibes with better. Thatโ€™s always a possibility too.

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How Do I make the Money I REALLY Want?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David,

My question is around raising our โ€œneed line.โ€ Iโ€™ve heard you say we always get what we need, and we have to raise our need line first before we can significantly increase our income. What I need to make is $35K a month. But my goal (what I want) is to make $100K a month.

Back when you picked your goal of making $50K a month, what were you planning to spend the money on? Did you do anything to raise your need line, so that you HAD to make $50K a month? Did you back-engineer to get to that number?

Neagle Code Answer

Great question. I donโ€™t think there was anything specific that I needed to spend that money on.

At that point in time, I had already moved beyond the idea of spending money on a specific thing. My focus was on bootstrapping my business, so I needed more money in general to advance the company.

I was doing a tremendous amount of traveling, and it was all first class. I needed to expand my team and hire the people who I needed to hire.

I also needed a larger amount of money consistently, so that I wasnโ€™t chasing as many sales on a regular basis. I was spending all my time on the phone, making sales, and it still wasnโ€™t enough at the end of the month. It didnโ€™t matter how many hours I spent making callsโ€”I still didnโ€™t have enough money at the end of the month. So I needed to balance that more in my life and my business.

I was like, โ€œThis is insane. Iโ€™ve got to change this.โ€ The change came from needing to leverage how much I was actually making per sale, so that I had more to work with.

I didnโ€™t back-engineer to get to my goal of $50K a month. I just picked that number because it was a simple idea of turning my annual income into a monthly income. I really wanted to make that quantum leap. Bob Proctor is the one who put that idea into my head.

One of the cool things about turning your annual income into a monthly income is, itโ€™s already working within an established belief system.

You already believe you can make that amount of moneyโ€”youโ€™re changing the timeframe in which you earn that money.

You already have the belief that you can make your income annually. Why is that important? Because most of us donโ€™t have negative connotations when it comes to time, not like we do with money. So weโ€™re not changing the belief around the money; we already believe we can earn it.

Weโ€™re changing the belief around the timeframe in which we earn it, which is a big difference. And that allows people to make that quantum leap much easier.

P.S. Whenever you're ready… here are 3 ways I can help you grow YOUR business:

  • Listen to The Successful Mind Podcast. Three times per week I drop cutting edge information and strategies relating to success mindset, leadership, wealth creation, and relationships.
  • Join other like-minded small business owners in my Transformation Facebook Group! Allow us to be a place to share ideas, get advice, and meet others who value truth and growth!
  • Join me at The Art of Success Virtual Summit! This October 2021, I'm getting a group of amazing business owners together for 3 days to work on exponentially growing their business.

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How to Choose a Goal Youโ€™ll Actually Hit

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Iโ€™ve set money goals many times and have never hit them. How do I set a money goal Iโ€™ll actually hit?

Neagle Code Answer

GREAT question!!

Think about the amount of money you want to earn in your life right now. Go ahead, take a minute to think it over.

For this exercise, I donโ€™t want you to just pull a number out of thin air like โ€œa billion dollarsโ€ or something. The number has to mean something to you personally. It has to be relevant to your daily life, your purpose, or what you want your lifestyle to be.

In order to make the money you want, you must know WHY you want that specific number. This is key.

It cannot be arbitrary or random. Nor can it be based on a vague fantasy. The number has to be specific. It has to have meaning.

It cannot be
based in fear.

Whatโ€™s your number? How much money do you want to make?

Donโ€™t say something like, โ€œOh, I want to make $500 million a year, so that I never have to worry about money again. Then I could go sit on a beach and drink piรฑa coladas for the rest of my life.โ€ Thatโ€™s based in fear, not true desire.

Your reason for wanting your number has to be practical, something that can be applied to your life right now.

For example, maybe you want to live a certain lifestyle that requires a lot of money. Maybe you want to help a group of people, give money to charity, feed kids in Africaโ€ฆbuild your business to a certain levelโ€ฆbuy an amazing house, car, or fly a private jet. All of that requires money. How much is required? And why do you want those particular things?

When you have a real reason behind the amount of money you want to makeโ€ฆyou have more motivation for making it happen. (Then youโ€™re not โ€œbullshittingโ€ yourself.)

You can choose to focus on a monthly number, or an annual number, whichever feels best for you. I like to help people think about monthly incomes. Then you can look at the actions you need to take in order to earn that amount each month.

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Family resents my success

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I am the daughter of a family who was raised VERY poor, and their expectations have always been to make something of myself and to be successful, but Iโ€™m now at the top of the income level of anyone in my family and Iโ€™m finding myself in a uncomfortable place. Iโ€™ve hit a ceiling and I think itโ€™s because Iโ€™m worried I wonโ€™t fit in with my family anymore or I wonโ€™t โ€œbe like themโ€ anymore.

How should I think about this so I can break through this income barrier?

Thanks!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks for your question!

The first thing you need to understand is that when you exceed the income level of anyone in your family, you may not fit in anymore.

You may not relate on the same level anymore either.

Things that are important to you may not be important to them and vice versa.

And sometimes they will judge you for your success.

But if you donโ€™t move forward, youโ€™re living a life so they wonโ€™t feel uncomfortable.

Recognize that at some level your parents gave you a double binding message.

One was to be successful.

The other was donโ€™t stray too far.

The fastest way to move through this financial set point is to realize that your relationships may change.

This doesnโ€™t mean that you love them any lessโ€ฆ
it just means that itโ€™s time to change.

Accept that change, and begin surrounding yourself with other people who WILL support you and who are also several steps ahead of you as you strive to hit your goals.

After all, you get ONE lifeโ€ฆ
who are you going
to live it for?

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Will success push your family away?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from Malika.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

I am the daughter of an immigrant, and my parentโ€™s expectations have always been to make something of myself and to be successful, but Iโ€™m now at the top of the income level of anyone in my family and Iโ€™m finding myself in a precarious place. Iโ€™m stuck and I think itโ€™s because Iโ€™m worried I wonโ€™t fit in with my family anymore.

How should I think about this so I can break through this income barrier?

Thanks!

Neagle Code Answer

Hi Mailika and thanks for your question!

The first thing you need to understand is that when you exceed the income level of anyone in your family, you wonโ€™t fit in anymore.

You wonโ€™t relate on the same level anymore either.

Things that are important to you wonโ€™t be important to them and vice versa.

And sometimes they will judge you for your success.

But if you donโ€™t move forward, youโ€™re living a life so they wonโ€™t feel uncomfortable.

Recognize that at some level your parents gave you a double binding message.

One was to be successful.

The other was donโ€™t stray too far.

The fastest way to move through this income barrier is to realize that your relationships may change.

Accept that fact, and begin surrounding yourself with other people who WILL support you as you strive to hit your goals.

After all, you get ONE lifeโ€ฆwho are you going to live it for?

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How to recover from losing a major client

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.

Neagle Code Question

Hi David!

How does a prosperous business recover from losing a major client?

Neagle Code Answer

Hi and thanks so much for your question!

The real answer to this question is that the line between a prosperous business and a non-prosperous business should never be determined by one major client.

Let me explain.

So many business owners have a mindset of just getting by, and if they are just getting by, thatโ€™s good enough.

Then one client backs out or one setback creeps in, and suddenly they are in crisis.

To have a truly prosperous business you need to consistently be selling MORE than you need, always setting money aside and always looking for that next person who needs your product or service.

A prosperous business has a cushion built in, so that if a major client is lost, the business is not devastated.

If youโ€™re in a business that does not have that cushion built in, and you do lose a major source of income because a major client backs out, your solution is clear.

You must bring in the necessary funds to cover your losses. In most instances this refers to making more sales. Sometimes it looks like taking out a line of credit to buy you some time to bring in the necessary sales to close that gap. It just depends on your situation.

But in all seriousness, the solution to this problem is actually to prevent it from happening in the first place by not stopping when youโ€™re in a place of โ€œgood enoughโ€.

Set your sales goals high, build in a cushion, and this will never be an issue.

Just Believe,ยฎ

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I’m just not making any money …

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from an individual who wishes to remain anonymous.

Question:

What do you suggest for those who have yet to make any money at all from their business?

Answer:

This is a question that has popped up often in the past, but I think itโ€™s extremely important for EVERYONE, no matter how much theyโ€™ve made in their business. Itโ€™s one of THE keys to business success.

Youโ€™ve probably heard me talk about the importance of knowing where you are, right? Well, in this case if youโ€™re going to set goals for yourself, itโ€™s important that you get very honest with yourself about where you are right now in your business and your life.

Once youโ€™ve done that, set your first goal. It could be a financial goal, โ€œIโ€™m going to make $1,000.00 this month.โ€, or it could be a benchmark goal, โ€œIโ€™m going to gain one new client this week.โ€ It really doesnโ€™t matter, as long as you can see yourself attaining the goal.

You must be able to get behind it emotionally for you to truly to EXPECT your DESIRE to manifest. (Remember manifestation is a two part process: desire and expectation.)

After youโ€™ve set your goal, you MUST TAKE ACTION. This is the place that trips up most people. I have many students that tell me they know what they should do, but they just canโ€™t make themselves do it. This place is what I call your blind spot. You know you should be doing something, and yet, you catch yourself on Facebook instead of making sales calls.

Once youโ€™ve taken action, you ADAPT to what happens because of that action, and you remain open to new opportunities.

The cycle then repeats beginning with you setting a new goal, โ€œIโ€™m going to make $2,000.00 this month.โ€, and pretty soon and in a very short time, youโ€™ve created a successful business.

The time it takes you to build that business depends on how quickly you move through the steps, and how long you allow yourself to flounder around before getting help if you need it.

The great thing about this cycle is that it pertains to new business owners who havenโ€™t made a cent in their business, and it also rings true for entrepreneurs who are already at the 5 or 6 figure mark. Itโ€™s the same for everyone. And itโ€™s what I use to help my students achieve their dreams both financially and personally.

So, I guess the question would be; why arenโ€™t you making any money in your business?

Abundance is all around you.

Come on, get going…

People are waiting for you to shine your brilliant light, so what are you resisting?

โ€œJust Believeโ€,ยฎ

P.S: The Neagle Code: DIRECTIONS for LIFE is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, Iโ€™ll select and personally respond to one question received via the above โ€œThe Neagle Codeโ€ page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.TheNeagleCode.com to participate.

P.P.S.: May I ask you to help me spread the word about this program? Is there someone you care for who is stuck, or struggling, or lost, or unhappy? Because if so, I would very much like to help. No matter their question, no matter their predicament, no matter if theyโ€™ve never heard of me before โ€ฆ if they would like to ask for help via www.TheNeagleCode.com, my Team and I will do our very best to provide that help.

Am I worthy of raising my rates?

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from an individual who wishes to remain anonymous

Question:

How do I convince myself that Iโ€™m worthy of increasing my prices and receiving the financial success that I so dearly desire? I think somewhere I have a belief that I donโ€™t deserve financial freedom, because even though I want it, it eludes me.

Answer:

You donโ€™t have to convince yourself of anything. You just have to look at Truth.

The truth is that you are a divine being, created in the likeness of Spirit, God, Allah, or whatever spiritual belief that you subscribe to. You are worthy of everything and anything that you want.

This is TRUTH.

What made Bill Gates or Oprah worthy of their riches? They are the same as you.

Nothing separates you other than your own perceptions and beliefs.

The fact that you are even asking this question shows that somewhere a message got handed to you that you agreed with. The message could have been that you need to work hard for anything in life, or that you werenโ€™t good enough, smart enough, or pretty enough. Your self esteem was damaged, and you vowed that youโ€™d never open yourself up to that vulnerability again.ย  Questioning worthiness comes from a place of being afraid to be seen or heard for fear of ridicule.

Imagine for a moment what your life would be like if you didnโ€™t care what others thought. If you werenโ€™t worried about making mistakes, looking like a fool, or being humiliated. How would your decision making be different? More importantly, how would your LIFE be different?

I encourage you to make a decision today that you ARE worthy. Donโ€™t โ€œconvinceโ€ yourself.

Proclaim it.

Stand in your power, say it out loud, and continue to do so until small changes in your thinking and behavior begin to occur. Every morning, look in the mirror, and tell yourself that youโ€™re perfect just the way you are and that NOTHING unworthy of God is worthy of you.

Treat yourself like the King or Queen that you are.

Accept nothing less than what you desire and take action as though you are filled with confidence.

Only then will you see your brilliance in this world and be shown the opportunities in life that will change EVERYTHING.

Because, my friend, THAT is the TRUTH, and Spirit wants you to have all that you desire even more than you than you want it for yourself.

โ€œJust Believeโ€,ยฎ

P.S: The Neagle Code: DIRECTIONS for LIFE is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, Iโ€™ll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.TheNeagleCode.com to participate.

P.P.S.: May I ask you to help me spread the word about this program? Is there someone you care for who is stuck, or struggling, or lost, or unhappy? Because if so, I would very much like to help. No matter their question, no matter their predicament, no matter if they've never heard of me before … if they would like to ask for help via www.TheNeagleCode.com, my Team and I will do our very best to provide that help.

Nothing is working. What am I doing wrong?!

This week's question from my portal “The Neagle Code: Directions for Life” comes from an individual who wishes to remain anonymous.

Question:

Hi David. HELP! I know something isnโ€™t working in my business. I feel like Iโ€™m doing everything I can, and nothing is happening. Iโ€™m not aware of a mindset block or any fears, and frustration is setting in. How can I part the fog and see whatโ€™s going on?

Answer:

Great question but difficult to answer as I donโ€™t know what your unique situation is.

So, letโ€™s dig a little deeper here, and bring in the TRUTH โ€ฆ

TRUTH: We manifest everything in our lives. (Meaning: we are responsible for everything that โ€œhappensโ€ in our lives.) From the spectacular, to the unfortunate, to the inconsequential.

So what you are experiencing is something youโ€™ve created because it serves you in some way.

(The beauty about taking 100% responsibility for painting the full picture of your situation, is that by taking responsibility youโ€™re no longer a victim to your situation, but instead have the power to change it in one or in all ways!)

Plus, know this: If youโ€™re not receiving the results you desire, youโ€™re likely creating through the filter of multiple subconscious toxic patterns that are working against your best efforts to CHANGE. And, I accept entirely that you may be completely unaware of the patterns, or of the toxicity, or both.

So, let me ask you some questions, and please sit with them and answer them honestly โ€ฆ

1. Is it possible that youโ€™re playing small so as to not draw attention to yourself, or to โ€œout shineโ€ your friends or family?

2. Are you disorganized, creating distraction, or finding yourself reacting to your day rather than having a plan for your day?

3. Are you hiding bills or investments from your spouse or partner, especially money you are investing for the growth of your business because youโ€™re afraid of rocking the boat?

4. Do you get sucked into negative family paradigms and feel yourself being pulled down?

5. Are you building this business because youโ€™re 100% passionate about making profit doing what you love, or do you care more about serving & assisting others?

6. Do you avoid asking people to pay you, because it feels uncomfortable or wrong?

7. Do you believe that your loved ones support you 110% in your ability to succeed, or do you worry that sooner or later youโ€™ll let them down, or that theyโ€™ll become angry with you?

If you can answer yes to any of these questions, you have adopted toxic patterns that only serve to keep you exactly where you are.

The tough part about toxic patterns is that they are very hard to see for yourself. They may be habits that youโ€™ve justified for years, and even created entire stories around. Most times, to release a toxic pattern you have to face something youโ€™ve been trying to avoid for a long time โ€ฆ like being seen, being vulnerable, being a change agent, being the center of attention, or just simply being yourself.

Itโ€™s tough โ€ฆ and youโ€™ll very likely need help & support to recognize which specific toxic patterns youโ€™re repeating. But doing THIS WORK pays off in joy, abundance, peace, prosperity & freedom in spades!

Let me share with my belief that I first put into words for our โ€œMy Year To Break Freeโ€ virtual mentorship program; a program designed to open your eyes to the toxic patterns weโ€™re discussing here. The quote is this:

โ€œThere is nothing more important in my life ~ or in my business ~ than my own personal growth as a human being. Truly, nothing is more important to me than shedding any piece of dysfunction that would hinder me from becoming the fullest representation of Spiritโ€™s great intention for me.
Nothing.โ€

So the next time a situation arises, stop and ask yourself the following question:

โ€œIs this decision, situation or relationship helping me to BE MORE FREE and aligned with Spiritโ€™s great intention for me, or is it causing me to BE held back in bondage?โ€

If youโ€™re willing to take the congruent action, the truthful answer to this question will always set you free.

And remember: You canโ€™t keep taking the same actions and expect different results. If you truly want to experience a shift, you must start making different decisions, followed by different actions. So, my strong recommendation is that you begin today by making the decision, and taking the steps, to get support uncovering the toxic patterns holding you back. My Year To Break Free is the perfect support & mentorship program for this exact, and our first live call in THIS COMING TUESDAY. I invite you to join me then.

โ€œJust Believeโ€,ยฎ

P.S: The Neagle Code: DIRECTIONS for LIFE is a weekly no-cost program that is open to everyone! Each week, Iโ€™ll select and personally respond to one question received via the above “The Neagle Code” page that I feel in my heart will help the most people. (You may choose to remain anonymous if you wish, with our full support.) It is my deep, heartfelt intention that ~ in answering your questions ~ I may provide you with the Universal Truths that in committed application, will set you free. Simply submit YOUR burning question at: www.TheNeagleCode.com to participate.

P.P.S.: May I ask you to help me spread the word about this program? Is there someone you care for who is stuck, or struggling, or lost, or unhappy? Because if so, I would very much like to help. No matter their question, no matter their predicament, no matter if they've never heard of me before … if they would like to ask for help via www.TheNeagleCode.com, my Team and I will do our very best to provide that help.

Three Steps to Your Quantum Leap

Iโ€™ve been sharing with you some of the wisdom from Price Pritchettโ€™s book, You2. Last time, I said that when you want to make a quantum leap, you have to quit trying harder.

More effort is not the answer.

If you want to completely change your outcome, you have to change your approach to the outcome. You have to shift gears, follow new patterns of thought and action.

Pritchett offers several strategies to help you make your own quantum leap. Here are three:

1. Ignore Conventional Approaches

Pritchett writes that we achieve conventional growth because we think along conventional lines. We make modest improvements because weโ€™re not looking for anything more than that.

Quantum leaps require you to abandon the status quo, to ignore the usual.

Iโ€™ll be the first to admit that bucking convention is easier said than done. Unconventional approaches are going to bring to the surface any emotional issues or pain you may have around being unusual.

For example, you may fear being embarrassed or being considered โ€œweird.โ€ Perhaps, in addition, โ€œbig shotsโ€ were ridiculed in your family and neighborhood, so you fear losing love if you excel.

To counteract those fears, you have to recognize them when they come up for you, and then move through them. Take the action regardless of the fear. After you do that a couple of times, youโ€™ll realize that your subconscious can scare you, but it doesnโ€™t have to stop you.

You also have to become more solid in who you are. That way, your results wonโ€™t derail you either. If you fail, itโ€™s okay. Youโ€™re not devastated by the failure because it doesnโ€™t define you. And if you succeed, thatโ€™s okay too.

2. Get Ruthless About Doing Something Different

Pritchett writes that the you-squared approach requires an abrupt change in behavior. You have to get ruthless about trying something different. Look for a paradoxical move. Be illogical. Use finesse instead of effort.

For example, unlike the fly I told you about, if youโ€™re banging your head against the glass, stop and look for an open door. If youโ€™re pushing against the river, try going with the flow.

Itโ€™s crucial that you do something new. Faith in the familiar blinds you to better pathways. You may not know what that better pathway is yet, but as long as you rely upon what youโ€™ve always done, youโ€™re not going to find it.

However, if you break out of your rut, second-guess your routines, overcome the reliance upon your old methodologies, you will open yourself up to receive new, inspired ideas. And with those new ideas and actions can come the solution for your quantum leap.

3. Seek the Elegant Solution

While youโ€™re experimenting, keep in mind that youโ€™re seeking an elegant solution, an approach that is simple, precise, efficient and neat, less demanding of your energies and emotions. As Pritchett writes, it will be a deft move or a path of less resistance.

You really can accomplish more by doing less. But in order to do that, you have to think beyond what common sense would allow.

Do you recall my exercise from last time? I wanted you to ask yourself how you could accomplish ten times more in your business by doing less. What ideas did you come up with? Did you get discouraged because they seemed unrealistic? Or, did you trust, like I said, that if you have the idea, the way to do it will show up as well?

Go find your list and keep those ideas alive. Allow brilliance to strike. It may not come in the way that you expect, but it will come.

Solutions exist all around you. Open up your mind, experiment in your actions and let yourself leap.


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